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Bariatric Surgery - Archive


4/7/2008

First Impressions ...

It was back in October when I decided to seriously pursue weight-loss surgery as an option. My first call was to my health insurance company. There was a half hour of my life I will never get back. 

My next call was to our family doctor to check for a referral. I was originally referred to a doctor who was part of our main medical group. As I continued doing my research though, I found myself looking at Dr. James Wallace and the Bariatric Surgery Program at Froedtert & the Medical College of Wisconsin. As coincidence had it, two of the only people I knew that have had the surgery were patients of Dr. Wallace's. No amount of research can equal firsthand reports.

My wife and I attended the orientation in November. Some things seemed pretty simple. Drink at least 8 glasses of water a day. Done. Chew each bite of your food at least 30 times. A bit of a change from my gulp and swallow technique, but I can do this. Increase protein? I can do that, just eat more red meat (my kind of diet).

Then came the hits. No red meat (at least for the first year). There goes that special cow diet I had planned. No doughy bread products? Are doughnuts really a doughy bread product? Increased risk for gall stones? Great, they can form a little stone co-op with my kidney stones. 

The orientation was every bit of three hours long and at the end I still had questions. I would be lying if I said that I wasn't intimidated by the procedure after the orientation.   

After a break for lunch, we met with Dr. Wallace for the one-on-one consult. The nurse took a history and my vitals. My blood pressure was 180 / 110. OK, the orientation was intimidating, but let's get real. My wife thought I was actually having a heart attack right on the spot. Thankfully, the nurse took a manual blood pressure and I was cured. Gotta love that technology. I would’ve paid money to see what my wife's blood pressure shot up to during that short time. 

Dr. Wallace was very thorough and genuinely listened to my wife and me. He addressed the questions we had ready for him and seemed to have a strong confidence without crossing the line into arrogance. There was one thing that Dr. Wallace and his staff made abundantly clear. This surgery is not a cure. It is a tool, and like any tool it will only work as well as the operator that is handling it.

Next week, I will talk about the next steps in the process.

   The following is feedback received for this blog:

Way to go Scott!!! I also happened upon your adventure while searching for employment as well. Looking forward to reading your continued entries. Much success to you!
- Philomena Wirtz
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I figured out the secret to succeeding at this WLS thing: There is no secret. And if you are reading this blog thinking that Scott’s Journey will make mine that much easier to face, I greatly apologize, but I am probably going to burst your bubble. This post will probably test just how honest I want to be with you the reader and how honest Froedtert & The Medical College of Wisconsin wants me to be with you the patient.

My weight is maintaining at about 255 pounds. Still down about 120 pounds from one year ago. That is the good news. The bad news is that I have been failing at this process for about the last six months. Yes, I am eating less and eating healthier than before. I am able to do more and can be more active than I was before. But just because I can do more doesn’t mean that I am. I am not taking full advantage of the benefits of this surgery.

There are ways to cheat this surgery. There are ways to cheat anything. I will not share the specifics with you because, let's be honest, many of you who are reading this are already familiar with the cheating and lying to yourself. God knows that I am. In many ways I feel like I am becoming my own self-fulfilling prophecy. I went into this worried in the back of my mind about failure and here I am taking steps towards failure.

The hospital and I have talked about putting a “sunset” date on my blog writing. But I have asked for more time. I have taken steps in the last few weeks to get back on the path I need. The surgery helped with the physical part of this, now I have to deal with and face the mental aspect of it. I would be honored to be able to keep informing those of you interested in the progress I can make. Thanks for reading.



   The following is feedback received for this blog:

hello Scott. I have kept up reading your blog entries and really hope the hospital does not "sunset" it. Your honesty is inspirational. We all have our challenges in life and you have choosen to share some very personal information.I applaud you!! I wish you continued success!!

- jeanette



Scott-I really hope the Hopsital does not sunset your blog. It's great that you have chosen to share your journey. It should be a real eye opener to those thinking about having the surgery. There is no magic solution. It takes a look of hard work and you have shown that to those of us who read your blog. That said, I will continue to look for your blog and sincerely hope you can continue on your way to achieve the results you want from your surgery. YOU CAN DO IT!!!

Scott, I am SO inspired by your honesty. I had surgery with Dr. Wallace 5 years ago. I lost 100 pounds and slowly continue to put some back on (30 so far). I am a single mom who trusts God, why can't I just deal with my emotions instead of eating? Let me know if you find the answer:)

btw - I loved Dr. Wallace and the staff - they were lifesavers to me!

- Jeanie Euler

 
 
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Scott is 36 years old and was born and raised in Milwaukee, Wis. Currently, he lives in Hales Corners with his wife, Mary, and three children, Tyler (9), Emilee (7), and Matthew (3). Scott has worked in law enforcement since 1990 and enjoys his life of public service. Scott and his family are members of Oak Creek Assembly of God. His Christian convictions have much to do with the shape of his perspective and how he approaches everyday life. Scott has struggled with his weight since high school. He began exploring weight loss surgery in the summer of 2007.
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