How do we move forward during cancer treatment? How do we get past cancer? Do we wallow in self-pity? Do we slip into depression? Do we put on a strong front? Do we shed tears in private? Do we become strong fighters? Do we move on?
My answer was in the affirmative to all of these questions. But the biggest question I had to ask myself was how was this going to change me as a person? As I searched for this answer, I quickly realized I was fortunate. Although I was an inpatient for a month, I had and have a real chance of beating a rare blood cancer.
The road ahead would mean three years of treatment. As of this writing, I am over halfway through. During my struggles both inpatient and outpatient, I met remarkable maintenance workers, cleaning crews, receptionists, technicians, nursing assistants, counselors, nurses and doctors.
The answer to my question, how would cancer define me, was found in these people. Each and every one of them gave of themselves so I could beat cancer, and I needed to honor their selflessness by becoming an advocate for others fighting cancer.
So how has cancer defined me? I volunteer as much as I can, in whatever way I can. I raise money for blood cancer research so others might have a cure. I talk with others around the country, helping them through their fight.
As I get stronger I will do more. I stop and smell the roses. I have compassion. I am at peace. I am here. I am a better person.
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Thank you for this thoughtful message. Very well stated! I hope you feel stronger everyday.