Menopause is a natural biological process that marks the end of a woman’s menstrual cycles and reproductive years. It is officially diagnosed when a woman has gone 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period, and it typically occurs between the ages of 45 and 55.
Perimenopause is the transition leading up to menopause, during which symptoms may begin and menstrual cycles become irregular. While every woman’s experience is unique, menopause is a universal milestone that deserves compassionate care and informed support.
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Transitions: Positively Navigate the Perimenopausal Phase
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This is a six-week, cognitive and behavioral therapy-based group for patients in the perimenopausal phase. This natural part of life can bring about a variety of cognitive, emotional, physical and social changes for women. It is not uncommon to experience sleep disruptions, mood fluctuations, brain fog, sexual changes, relationship shifts or other physical symptoms, such as hot flashes or joint pain. The variety of changes can affect coping and overall quality of life.
This group aims to bring education and introduce ways to positively navigate this transition. The group will help patients:
- Feel more informed by understanding symptoms
- Develop strategies to improve behaviors, such as sleep and activity, that will promote short-and long-term health outcomes
- Learn ways to cope with and reduce distress related to physical or emotional symptoms
- Connect with others who share similar experiences
- Generate a sense of empowerment in approaching this phase of life change in a rich and meaningful way
This group is designed for women who are experiencing current symptoms of perimenopause and may have this diagnosis from their care team. Some sessions may include experts from other medical specialties such as OB/GYN or psychiatry. Each session lasts six weeks and includes at-home skill practices.
This group is offered several times per year. Patients are expected to complete an initial individual intake prior to participation. For additional information or to schedule an intake appointment, please call 414-805-4781.
Perimenopause Symptoms
Perimenopause can begin in early to mid-40s and usually lasts around seven years, though it may extend up to a decade for some women. During this time, estrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate, leading to irregular periods and a variety of physical and emotional changes. While fertility declines, pregnancy is still possible until menopause is complete.
Common signs of perimenopause include:
- Irregular periods: Cycles may become shorter, longer, heavier or lighter
- Hot flashes: Sudden warmth, flushing and sweating
- Night sweats: Hot flashes that disrupt sleep
- Mood swings: Irritability, anxiety or emotional sensitivity
- Sleep disturbances: Trouble falling or staying asleep
- Vaginal dryness: Often leading to discomfort or painful intercourse
- Breast tenderness: Similar to PMS symptoms
- Fatigue: Persistent tiredness not relieved by rest
- Decreased libido: Lower sexual desire due to hormonal shifts
- Weight gain: Especially around the abdomen
- Headaches: Often linked to hormonal fluctuations
- Memory lapses/“Brain fog”
Less common symptoms have also been reported during perimenopause and menopause. Although they may not be widely recognized as hormone-related, hormonal changes can contribute to these symptoms and may be considered when evaluating diagnosis and treatment options.
- Heart palpitations: Sensation of a racing or irregular heartbeat
- Electric shock sensations: Sudden jolts under the skin, often preceding hot flashes
- Tingling extremities: Pins-and-needles in hands, feet, arms or legs
- Burning mouth syndrome: Painful burning in the tongue, lips or mouth
- Metallic taste: A strange taste that may persist for days
- Frozen shoulder (adhesive capsulitis): Pain, stiffness, and reduced range of motion in the shoulder; research suggests hormonal changes during perimenopause and menopause may increase the risk of developing this condition.
- Bloating and digestive issues: Often mistaken for dietary problems
- Itchy skin: Dryness and itchiness due to estrogen decline
- Brittle nails and hair: Changes in texture and strength
- Changes in body odor: Hormonal shifts can alter sweat composition
- Dry mouth and bad breath: Reduced saliva production
- Dizziness or lightheadedness: Often unrelated to physical exertion
- Panic attacks or intense anxiety: Sudden emotional surges
- Rage episodes: Unexpected bursts of anger
- Worsening allergies: Heightened sensitivity to allergens
- Urinary tract infections (UTIs): Increased frequency due to tissue changes
- Unease or restlessness: A vague but persistent discomfort
Menopause Symptoms
Menopause is not a disease — it’s a natural phase of life. For some, it brings relief from monthly periods and concerns about unintended pregnancy. For others, it can be physically and emotionally challenging. Typical menopausal symptoms include:
- Hot flashes: Sudden feelings of warmth, often with sweating and flushing
- Night sweats: Hot flashes that occur during sleep, disrupting rest
- Irregular periods: Cycles may become shorter, longer, heavier or lighter before stopping
- Mood swings: Irritability, anxiety or emotional sensitivity
- Sleep disturbances: Trouble falling or staying asleep
- Vaginal dryness: Often leads to discomfort or pain during intercourse
- Decreased libido: Lower sexual desire due to hormonal changes
- Weight gain: Especially around the abdomen
- Thinning hair: Hair may become finer or shed more easily
- Dry skin: Reduced collagen and oil production
- Breast tenderness: Can fluctuate with hormonal shifts
- Fatigue: Persistent tiredness not relieved by rest
- Memory lapses / “Brain fog”: Difficulty concentrating or forgetfulness
Every woman’s experience is unique. If symptoms interfere with daily life, consult your physician or gynecologist to explore treatment options, including hormone therapy, non-hormonal medications and lifestyle changes.
Exercise and Menopause
Hormonal shifts during menopause can affect energy levels, joint health and sleep—making exercise routines harder to maintain. But staying active is one of the most powerful tools for managing symptoms and protecting long-term health.
Benefits of Regular Exercise
- Improves cholesterol and blood pressure
- Reduces risk of heart disease and stroke
- Enhances mood and reduces anxiety
- Supports better sleep
- Prevents midlife weight gain
- Increases bone density and reduces osteoporosis risk
Recommended Guidelines
- Cardio: Aim for 150 minutes per week (e.g., brisk walking, swimming, cycling)
- Strength training: At least two sessions per week to preserve muscle mass and bone strength
- Flexibility and mind-body movement: Yoga, pilates and tai chi help reduce inflammation and support joint health
If sleep is disrupted or joints are sore, opt for lower-impact activities and avoid high-intensity workouts until symptoms stabilize.
Sleep and Menopause
Sleep disturbances affect nearly half of women during menopause, often due to declining estrogen and progesterone levels, as well as potential nighttime hot flashes that cause interference with sleep duration or quality. Poor sleep can worsen mood, memory and weight gain.
Sleep Tips for Menopausal Women
- Stick to a consistent bedtime routine
- Avoid late-day naps; limit naps to 20 minutes
- Cut off caffeine at least 6 hours before bed
- Eat light dinners and avoid alcohol close to bedtime
- Keep your bedroom cool (around 67°F is ideal)
- Power down screens 30 minutes before sleep
If sleep issues persist, speak with your healthcare provider. Evidence-based treatment, such as cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia has shown good benefit for sleep concerns. This treatment is available through app-based sources or establishing with a qualified mental health clinician or sleep specialist. Our Sleep Disorders Program offers personalized support and treatment options.
Nutrition and Menopause
Effects of aging as well as some hormonal fluctuations during menopause can lead to increased abdominal fat, insulin resistance and bone loss. Nutrition plays a vital role in managing symptoms and maintaining health.
Key Nutrition Strategies
- Balanced meals: Include lean protein (20g per meal), whole grains, fruits, vegetables and healthy fats
- Protein-rich snacks: Support muscle retention with yogurt, edamame, nuts or chickpea pasta
- Fiber intake: Aim for 25g/day to support digestion and satiety
- Calcium and vitamin D: Essential for bone health—get levels checked regularly
- Anti-inflammatory foods: Incorporate salmon, olive oil, avocado, nuts, seeds and dark chocolate
- Mediterranean diet: This heart-healthy eating pattern may reduce menopausal symptoms and support overall wellness
Avoid extreme dieting, which can accelerate bone loss. Instead, focus on sustainable habits, stress management and quality sleep — all of which contribute to healthy weight and symptom relief.
When to Seek Help
Menopause and perimenopause experiences can be different for every woman. If symptoms are affecting your quality of life, don’t hesitate to reach out. Our team of gynecologists, endocrinologists, sleep specialists, women’s health psychologists or psychiatrists, dietitians and other wellness experts are here to guide you through this transition with compassion and evidence-based care.
Menopause and Perimenopause FAQ
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When does menopause usually start?
Menopause, defined as 12 months after final menstrual cycle, typically occurs between ages 45 and 55, with the average age in the U.S. being 51. Perimenopause—the transitional phase leading up to menopause—can begin in early to mid-40s.Perimenopause can start 5-10 years before final menstrual period and symptoms can last for several years after; however, every woman is unique. Postmenopause represents the stage a woman remains for the remainder of her life.
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What’s the difference between perimenopause and menopause?
Perimenopause is the time when hormone levels begin to fluctuate, causing irregular periods and symptoms like hot flashes or mood changes. Menopause is confirmed when a woman has gone 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period.
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What causes hot flashes?
Hot flashes are triggered by changes in estrogen levels that affect the body’s temperature regulation. They can vary in intensity and frequency and may continue for several years after menopause.
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Why is sleep so difficult during menopause?
Declining estrogen and progesterone levels can disrupt sleep cycles. Night sweats, anxiety and changes in melatonin production also contribute to insomnia or restless sleep. General life stress in this phase of life can also play a role.
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Should I consider menopause hormone therapy (MHT)?
Menopause hormone therapy or MHT (previously referred to as hormone replacement therapy, or HRT) can be effective for relieving symptoms like hot flashes, vaginal dryness and bone loss. However, it’s not suitable for everyone. Talk to your healthcare provider about risks, benefits and alternatives.
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Can menopause affect my memory or concentration?
Yes. Many women report “brain fog,” forgetfulness or difficulty focusing during menopause. When due to perimenopause, these symptoms are temporary. It will improve in time and can be managed with sleep, exercise and stress reduction.
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What lifestyle changes help with menopause symptoms?
- Regular exercise
- Balanced nutrition
- Mindfulness and stress management
- Limiting alcohol and caffeine
- Establishing consistent sleep routines
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Do I still need to see a gynecologist after menopause?
Absolutely. Postmenopausal women should continue regular checkups to monitor bone health, cardiovascular risk and screen for cancers or other conditions.
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Why is weight gain common during menopause?
Weight gain and changes in metabolism are a normal part of aging in general. Some hormonal shifts can also change fat distribution — especially around the abdomen. Reduced muscle mass and sleep disturbances also contribute. A combination of strength training, cardio and mindful eating can help manage weight.
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Is menopause the same for everyone?
Not at all. Every woman’s experience is unique. Genetics, lifestyle and overall health all influence how symptoms appear and how long they last.
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